Adopting a rescue dog is a rewarding experience, but it requires patience and understanding. Before heading out to spend time with the dogs today, I want to share an important concept we discuss with potential adopters: the 3/3/3 rule.
What is the 3/3/3 Rule?
The 3/3/3 rule is a guideline that helps new pet owners understand the transition period for a newly adopted dog. This rule outlines the first three days, three weeks, and three months in a dog’s new home:
3 Days:
In the first few days, the dog may feel overwhelmed, nervous, or unsure about their new environment. They might not eat much, sleep a lot, or hide. At our rescue, dogs become familiar with our routine, feeding schedule, and playtime, which takes time to learn.
3 Weeks:
After a few weeks, the dog begins to settle in and starts to understand the new routine. We see their true personality start to emerge—whether they are bossy, submissive, or something in between. Most dogs feel better medically and start showing their unique traits.
3 Months:
By the three-month mark, dogs are often fully adjusted to their new homes. They become comfortable with the household rules and routines. At our rescue, dogs get used to introducing more dogs into the pack and are supervised and guided in their behavior.
Why Time is Essential
Many people seek the perfect dog, expecting immediate results, but even dogs raised from puppies can have issues. Dogs are born with distinct personalities and are influenced by human leadership, similar to children. When meeting a dog for adoption, we discuss what potential adopters are looking for and explain that dogs need time to adapt.
Unfortunately, some adopters don’t give rescue dogs a chance. When introduced to a new home, dogs are sometimes turned loose without proper introductions and are expected to understand new rules and routines instantly. This sets them up for failure. At our rescue, some dogs leave happy and return even happier because they know the routine and are consistent.
The Importance of Patience
If you plan to adopt a dog, give them time. Use a crate if they are crate-trained, and allow them to adjust at their own pace. Understand what’s happening in their minds. Many claim to be dog trainers, yet our dogs receive no direction. If you aren’t willing to give our dogs time, please let them stay where they are. Believe it or not, they are happy here, knowing what to expect with consistency.
Keep In Mind
Rescue dogs deserve patience and understanding. Print the 3/3/3 rule, study it, follow it, practice it, and trust that these dogs will never come back once they find their forever homes.
Adopting a rescue dog can be incredibly rewarding if you give them the time they need to adjust and thrive. Together, we can make a difference in the lives of these deserving animals.
